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Is Seattle Even More Guy-Heavy Than the Bay Area? We Ran the Numbers

"Seattle is just the Bay Area 2.0, except worse. It's all guys. The engineers can't find anyone." If you've ever worked in Seattle, you've probably heard some ...

Finding the Right Person Isn't About Fate — It's About Probability

It was a Tuesday afternoon in Flushing, Queens. C, 33, sat at a bubble tea shop with a friend, her phone face-down on the table. Her mom had sent 14 voice messages. She ...

Do Chinese Guys in New York Really Have It Easy? We Ran the Numbers

"Chinese guys in New York are spoiled. They have so many options that nobody's in a hurry to settle down." If you've been single in NYC for more than a couple ...

Turning 30 Doesn't Mean You Have to Settle — Here's How to Rethink Your Standards

Last Sunday afternoon, six people sat around a hot pot in a San Jose townhouse. A tomato oxtail broth bubbled away, and the steam fogged up the windows. A 32-year-old ...

How to Build Secure Attachment: 7 Behaviors You Can Practice

She stared at the message box, her heart hammering like she'd just finished a sprint. His text came through: "I need some time alone for a few days." Her ...

Why ENFPs Crash and Burn in Love: A Matchmaker's Field Guide

I met R at a friend's dinner. She's a designer, classic ENFP energy—the kind of person who lights up the room without trying. Three weeks after she started dating ...

When He Goes Cold: Why It Might Not Be What You Fear

Three hours have passed. He texted back: "ok." You called him for video last time. He said he's been swamped. You mentioned meeting up this weekend. ...

Anxious Attachment: When Fear Becomes Self-Fulfilling

It's 2:17 AM and Sarah's phone lights up. Again. She hasn't touched it in an hour—it just lit up again. She unlocks anyway. In their chat, her last five messages sit ...

You Don't Need to Fight Less. You Need to Fight Clean.

"We fight a lot." On its own, that sentence tells you almost nothing about whether you'll make it. Decades of longitudinal research on couples keeps landing ...

Should You Move for Love? We Pulled Real Dating Data on 16 North American Cities

"If dating is part of the calculus, which city should I actually move to?" It's the question single Chinese professionals in North America run in the back of ...