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Anxious Attachment: When Fear Becomes Self-Fulfilling

It's 2:17 AM and Sarah's phone lights up. Again. She hasn't touched it in an hour—it just lit up again. She unlocks anyway. In their chat, her last five messages sit ...

Getting Back Together With Your Ex: 5 Questions to Answer Honestly First

Ninety-two days after they got back together, she was hauling her boxes out the door again. The first breakup had been a mess — both of them crying, a month of silence, ...

Why High-Achieving Chinese Americans Have the Hardest Time Finding Love

There's a paradox running through the North American Chinese community that gets more obvious every year: the more impressive your résumé, the harder it gets to ...

Too Busy to Date? 5 Time Management Strategies That Actually Work

"It's not that I don't want a relationship. I genuinely don't have time." The matchmaking team at 2RedBeans hears some version of this twenty times a week. It ...